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| _Tikvah | Acceptable FW behavior or not posted on: 11/10/2006 5:27:11 PM I would like some input and know I will get more then I probably want but here we go. I have my own personal view on this but would like to see if how I feel is ethically correct in a Gorean community. OMG ethically and Gorean don't even go together. ~shakes my head~ You have a FW and She has been noticed going private with a FM. Open room affection. She has just submitted her petition to the city He resides at. He does have a couple slaves. They are not FC'd having only discussed the idea. Now be realalistic here we all have needs, desires, hopes, and relationships be it friends or something closer. And, I don't want to sound like a prud or a jealous FW for I don't see myself as either. But do know there are many out there far more educated in the Gorean ways of thinkig then I so here is the questions. How does this look upon other FW? Is this slave like behavior? Where is the line from slave to acceptable flirtation from a FW to a Man? Is there any? Does another FW call Her on her actions if this is wrong? We all have strong views on how a slave should act for her actions reflect not only the Master but His Home and Gor as a whole. And the actions of a Man reflect His Home and Gor as a whole. Does this not go the same for the FW? Thank you for the imput may Everyones travels be safe, health be well, and wealth be abundant. It is said that all FW desire to be as free as a slave. That to be a true Free Woman is to submit to set aside ones own needs, desires and fears coming to and relying solely upon the Man before her. Finding herself, her happiness threw who is now her Master. How acceptable these thoughts are I suppose will depend on each persons heart. |
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x.Keylee.x
Forest Panther |
Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 5:46:26 PM hm scratches my ear a moment. In my feline wisdom I think her going pr is acceptable. No one knows what goes on in pr. For all we might know she wanted to discuss a personal real life occurance and did not wish to advertise it in open room. When I was a fw I often went to pr to show avs to my slaves or to friends for their slaves. I am an awful av addict and love to shop. Whether or not behaivor in pr is of a romantic nature no one knows, she had the curtains closed Open room affection, is a matter of personal taste and opinion. I don't think you mean the coochie coo baby talk type thing.(which is very annoying lol) She sounds like she may be a good addition to gor. In response to your questions. How does this look upon other FW? It don't do anything bad, sets a good standard-close your curtains. Is this slave like behavior? I don't see it as slave like behaivor. There is a difference between being affection and being wanton. Where is the line from slave to acceptable flirtation from a FW to a Man? That is not for me to determine that is up to each individual man. Does another FW call Her on her actions if this is wrong? I don't think there is a problem wif her behaivor at all. struts off back to find more snackage. Tryp's late wif my morning jerky again..darn bipeds! |
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Bliss
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 6:33:49 PM Im not sure excalty what your looking for here ..I think the FW in question has every right to go PR ..I do and with ~gasps~ men who arent My FC!! I am not by any means cybering them ,, but maybe I am just having a chat about things like Keylee said ..about my RT or maybe stuff that is happening in Gor or My HS that I want to talk about without anyone sittin in obs watching. ps..Keylees raided Tyros for jerky yet again . Trypster! hurry ..she will eat us out off house and home ..that cat is HUNGRY ! |
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ll-Beast.Blade-ll
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 6:49:13 PM This is rather tricky really, for the reason that there is no proof who a person is in pr with once they go pr unless someone is there with them, in which case they have a chaperone and it makes the point moot. Now for flirting. I don't see a FCship in chat happening without it actually because there is not enough families developed to do it correctly in the first place. Long as they aren't kissing and getting hot in public I would think there would be behaviors that would be deemed normal between 2 people that are falling for each other. The actions to be taken to me would reside within the city they are in. Bringing it to the board makes others wonder what the motives were behind the questions in the first place. ~wanders back off again to my studies~ |
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Hasan
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 7:55:28 PM quote: I have no objection to a free woman going to a private room with a free man. Some topics do not belong discussed in public and frankly; it is long time misleading notion that free woman do not engage in sex with men. The difference is a fine line and the key word is control. Free woman are not slave hot, in simple terms, they do not lose control of themselves in bed. The true definition of the word frigid is sexually unresponsive not sexually void, i.e. the woman probably does not orgasm. What is acceptable and where is the line is rather simple it is anywhere the free men deem suitable within his home or city. Gor is a man’s world, which means men set the standards, which women are required to follow. I have more trouble wondering were your mind was when you posted then I do being concerned with what a woman might be doing in private room with a man, which if a woman isn’t careful is behavior that can be construed as more questionable then the aforementioned. quote: Probably, if her actions or her attire are grossly inappropriate but more then likely a man will call her on it long before you do. I have a tendency to draw the line of appropriate with my free woman all the time. However, I do feel every woman should be as concerned about her reputation as a man should. They also are representatives of Gor. They too set standards that other women will mimic when they do not have the guidance of a man. quote: I have strong views on how everyone that calls themselves Gorean should act, no one is exempt, but I also remember that different types of Gorean’s existed in the books just as they do in HalGor and I have the choice to associate with those people or not. |
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_Tikvah
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 8:09:26 PM ~smiles~ Well I did ask for opinion. But no where in my post did I say it was pointed to any one person(s) or if it was a real situation. But human instinct deems it necessary for names to be connected with any situation. I have noticed this quote many of times on posts... Bringing it to the board makes others wonder what the motives were behind the questions in the first place. Well is the board not a place one can bring ideas, concerns, situation fiction/non, question and ask for opinions, ideas, answers and suggestions. So that maybe they can see things in a different light, answer a question or even ease someones fears. And why does there always have to be a motive behind something. Is there so many secreative people roaming about Gor that they only post if they have alternative motives. If this is always going to be in questions then why even bother asking for opinions from others that you respect for their knowledge. I am now beginning to understand why there is only a specific handful that post on various boards. As far as me have an alternative motive. No, I don't pull punches. ~walks away sadened that so many expect the worst motives from a post~ |
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Jaaka Giha
This message was updated on 11/10/2006 9:24:53 PM by Jaaka Giha |
Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 9:24:14 PM I knew I had seen this before. I went racing back to Fighting Slave, chapter 13. quote: *gasp* A seemingly free woman, certainly in robes of concealment. Asking a man...a MAN, on a public street no less, to take her home and...*voice drops to a dramatic whisper*...touch her! If a free woman can apparently ASK to be touched by a man, in public, I see little reason a free woman can't go to a pr room in vp, for wotever reason. Unless one is in the room with them, there's no way to know wot's goin on in there. She might be paintin her toenails or summin' lol. Then again, she might just be havin' sex! As Jehan stated, it did happen, or there would be no gorean children. |
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-.Sativa.-
*La Sarcastica* |
Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 9:52:41 PM Drak, does this mean we can have orgasms? |
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Jaaka Giha
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 10:01:13 PM I have no idea lol...well wait yes I do..I think. Doesn't it say somewhere in those books, the difference in time from a free woman having an orgasm and a slave having one? I Think it goes on and on about how a slave can have one in a minute or less and takes a FW 30 minutes sometimes, and that it's not the same as a slave orgasm. I can't for the life of me remember which book, but I swear I read it before. |
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Fancy_Megrum
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 10:40:15 PM Guess wot it boils down to is 'ow the man in question perceives the woman, beins that iff'n He determines she is actin' slave like then it would be up to Him to do somethin'. Now, iff'n I thought a free woman were bein' slutty, I'd jest call 'er a 'ussy an' twirl me skillet at 'er. |
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-.Sativa.-
*La Sarcastica* |
Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 10:54:23 PM best damn 30 minutes i ever spent |
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Tryp
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/10/2006 11:05:57 PM Questions, usually, are always motivated by something; i.e., curiosity as to what would happen if, a personal experience, knowing someone with the experience and questions being raised by said experience. Hence, some (FM in particular) are questioning your motives behind asking the question. It's not a big deal. Posting on 3 Moons is open to anyone. Some do not post for fear of being "bashed", or questioned, or maybe even finding out they're wrong..........or right. This is a public forum and posting invites opinions at large from a very diverse community. Some of us just aren't shy about speaking up. |
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Jaaka Giha
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/11/2006 12:11:28 AM I'm shy. *flutters me eyelashes* |
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Tryp
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/11/2006 3:14:22 AM Yea..and Mother Teresa and I had a lot in common. |
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Bliss
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Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/11/2006 4:02:52 AM whats an orgasm?? can I have starbust ones please .. if theres any going spare for FW. |
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Hasan
This message was updated on 11/11/2006 6:17:52 AM by Hasan |
Acceptable FW behavior or not
replied on: 11/11/2006 6:11:04 AM As Tryp said, everything has motive, which is what generates the drive to ask a question in the first place. I am not saying your question was wrong, or that you should not have asked it. What I am saying is presentation is everything, for slave or free, male or female. Had you posted just the questions, and not added all the circumstances which had nothing to do with the questions I might not have wondered about your mind-set at all. Frankly put, this is Gor and a free woman meddling into the business of a free man is not a good practice, the outcome for the free woman could be awful. Some Gorean men have a delicate sense of honour and are easily offended. It was only a small bit of advice, which you can take or leave. I think the post in itself is a good one and long overlooked pieces of information about Gor and free woman, which is often misinterpreted. I applaud the men and women that have brought facts to not one free woman but many. |
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