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| fratka Moderator/Phreak  Quote | Reply | | Post by Shaybeck - continuation of another thread. posted on: 2/13/2006 1:55:06 AM Freaking Dumbass Skeptics! replied on: 2/10/2006 11:57:53 AM IP: 64.136.26.228 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- To answer your question Frank...Yes....I'm not embarrassed to talk about it...The first time was my ex-husband...Let's just say we were water and oil mixed together and you know that's not a good combination...As far as it being traumatic yes it was and I followed the pattern of a lot of women... not telling anyone and hoping to fix the problem..When it got too bad for me I divorced him...got counseling for me and my children and I came to realize that by not telling anyone and trying to put a band-aid on the situation it was in my best interest to move on in my life.... I have been married to my 2nd husband for 10 years and we are very happily married...My husband Shayne has never raised a hand to me or our children...he didn't even believe in spanking them so it was time out for all of them a lot...LOL The second incident is the one that really got to me...We were living in a home in a community setting at the time...This was probably about 5 years ago...the first time I noticed anything strange was one night when the kids had went to their dads house and it was just me and my husband at home... I just gotten out of the shower and was standing in the living room in front of the mirror talking to my husband... I looked through the mirror and saw a man in the door window..Porch light was on so I didn't get a clear image of him...at that moment I said to my husband "There's someone at the door". My husband got up and went to the door and the man wasn't there...So at this point I think I'm seeing things. It got worse over the next couple of months...He would come to the back door, pound on the windows etc,...We even called the police a couple times...anyways Everywhere I went I usually had my border collie with me... one night we let her in the house and she was really sick...We had to put her down because her stomach had twisted. The vet said that she ate something that poisoned her...2 weeks after we put her down... It was still daylight and my husband came home... My step daughter and I had been cleaning the game room downstairs. We all decided that we wanted to watch a movie so my husband and step daughter were going to go get it and I was going to take a quick shower....Both the front and back doors of our house were open "meaning the outside doors not the screen doors because it was so hot... I went in to my kitchen and put my cigarette out and heard the front door slam. I turned around thinking it was my husband "that he forgot something" and there the guy was....talk about freaking out I ran out the back door and went over the deck railing....The only thing that I could remember was a green shirt, black hair and nasty looking teeth. The guy came right after me and it was a very, very, traumatic experience. I wasn't hurt except for the jump from our deck but the only thing that saved me was a car coming down my neighbors driveway...The guy ran and I layed there for a couple minutes and then went to my phone and called my sister and husband...they called the police... It took them 3 months to find the guy but they did... He was taken down in my front yard while my husband and I were away.. I got the phone call from the police to come and identify him..He had just moved in a couple months back and had been watching me from a hillside for a couple months...needless to say he was put in West Penn mental hospital he had some real problems...ended up taking an overdose...So yeah that was very traumatic. Your right about the "ASP" many people claim to feel contact but no cases that I've ever heard of "and I researched it" have had any kind of marks.. So your saying I may have a angry entity or ghost in my house that is taking advantage of my vulnerablity during a "ASP" episode. Not causing it... just taking advantage? Oh my wrote another novel... just wanted to be straight with ya... |
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replied on: 2/13/2006 2:00:16 AM Shay, So, is the guy (the mentally disturbed one) dead due to the overdose? Also, are you still affected by your experiences with your ex? How is your relationship with him now; cordial, pleasant, indifferent? |
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replied on: 2/13/2006 3:15:23 AM Yes the man died from the overdose...he really was a nut case...stated that it was my fault. That I was the one that was luring him...never met the guy before and really wasn't active in the neighborhood...kind of kept to myself..Didn't even know when he moved in... It no longer affects me. I've over come those obstacles a long time ago.. My ex and I are cordial and I keep him well informed of his daughters activities...It isn't a problem anymore. He is very active in their lives but I really have no contact with him unless it involves my daughters...My husband and my ex have been known to band together so to speak to keep the girls in line...LOL I've come to the conclusion that he is a good father but terrible husband material...incidentally he can't keep a girl friend...hmmmm wonder why...LOL |
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replied on: 2/13/2006 8:51:24 AM Did this occur in the same house you are moving out of now? With the crazy guy I mean? |
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replied on: 2/13/2006 9:44:27 AM No Frank that was a different house than the one we are in now...why do you ask. |
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replied on: 2/13/2006 10:15:29 AM I trying to rule out any psychological trauma tied to the house, even if unrecognized by you e.g. feelings of insecurity, always looking behind you, you know, what people would call being skittish. Even though you may still carry around some form of cautiousness now because of that, it may not be enough where it has become an irrational fear (phobia). Just working through the problem, so I can feel comfortable in ruling out any internal issue. Once you rule out an internal issue we can look at the external and the possiblity of a haunting. And yes, I am like this with my actual clients. LOL But they appreciate it in the end when they get the detailed report. |
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replied on: 2/14/2006 1:44:55 AM Actually Frank I don't walk around all the time feeling like someone is following me. I've always been cautious "because I'm a woman" when it comes to leaving a building going to my car etc,. That's just common sense. But as far as in my own home I really don't have a problem being alone. I've come to realize that what happened wasn't a common occurance and I was in the right place at the wrong time. It was one of the reason we decided to move. To make me feel more secure. I'm not what anyone would call skittish. Sure everyone has fears.. Like mine are heights, rollercoasters and riding in a car with anyone driving besides my husband or myself...My daughter scares the "be-jesus" out of me so I avoid going anywhere with her driving.. "New driver." LOL!! Other than that I have taken classes on self-defense with my daughters. I think it's a good idea especially if they are starting out in college. So you could call me a rational mother...LOL |
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replied on: 2/14/2006 4:58:47 AM Okay, just making sure. Yeah, it's always a good idea to learn self-defense. My wife was in the military (it's where we met) and has learned more than basic self-defense. She is also proficient with several different types of firearms and edged weapons. Needless to say, I'm not worried about her. What I always tell my female friends if they are ever in a bad situation with an attacker, perform "SPP" (Shit, Puke, Pee). I know it sounds nasty but it has been shown to work. If that doesn't work go for the eyes and groin ("soft areas", there is no way to toughen those areas against attack). Okay, thats enough going off track and grossing out the younger readers. I will keep researching your issues Shay... |
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replied on: 2/14/2006 6:03:17 AM Your right though Frank..One of the techniques that was taught to us was to try to make ourselves repulsive to the attacker and whatever works, works. We were also taught that if the situation felt hopeless our best bet was the groin. If you do it right the man is out of commission for enough time to make an escape. But your right this isn't the subject. Keep up the research and let me know what you come up with..I really do need some answers...good or bad. It's better than nothing... |
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